Thomas Tawyer Obituary

In Loving Memory of Thomas Tawyer: Thomas Tawyer, a loving husband, devoted father, doting grandfather, and a friend to many, passed away peacefully at home on October 4, 2023, at the age of 80, in his East Hartford, Connecticut, home. He was born on March 19, 1943, in Danbury, Connecticut, to the late Esther and George Tawyer. Tom graduated from the University of Connecticut and worked at Aetna for 34 years as a long-term disability specialist, during which time he forged many lifelong friendships. Tom is survived by his loving wife, Virginia, who shared in the incredible journey of their life together. He is also survived by his children, Jeffrey Tawyer, Noelle Sardinha and her husband Tom, and Janine Perkins and her husband Donis, who were his pride and joy. His legacy lives on in his cherished grandchildren, Isabelle, Isaac, Ryan, Lauren, Justin, and Maya, who will always carry his memory in their hearts. Additionally, Tom leaves behind his sister, Barbara DeFazio, with whom he shared a deep bond. He also had many nieces and nephews whom he held close to his heart. Tom was a man who cherished his family and friendships above all else. His life was a testament to the enduring bonds of love and kinship. He shared an unwavering devotion to his wife, Ginny, and their love of dancing together was a source of endless joy in their lives. They recently celebrated their 58th anniversary, and their connection was a testament to the power of love that lasts a lifetime. One of Tom's endearing activities was creating giant custom pancakes that brought delight to his grandchildren's mornings. His love for his family was boundless, and his face would light up at any mention of his beloved grandchildren. His adoration for them was evident in every moment they spent together. Animals held a special place in Tom's heart, particularly dogs. His own faithful companion, Duchess, held a unique place in his heart, and he was known for his compassion and kindness towards all four-legged friends. His granddogs, Molly and Bailey, will truly miss him. Tom had a passion for automobiles, both old and new, with a penchant for speed and style. He would regale anyone who would listen with stories of his favorite cars and their unique features. His love for the open road was something he shared with those closest to him. As a lifelong fan of baseball, Tom enjoyed many games over the years. Whether cheering for his favorite team or discussing the finer points of the game with fellow enthusiasts, he found joy in the sport. Pizza was another of Tom's guilty pleasures, and he never turned down the chance to savor a slice. His appreciation for the simple joys in life was a reminder to all of us to savor the little things. A celebration of Tom's life will be held on Saturday, October 14th at 10am at the D'Esopo Funeral Chapel at 30 Carter Street in East Hartford. Visiting hours 10am - 12pm with a ceremony at 12pm. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Lustgarten Pancreatic Cancer Foundation. Tom's kindness, zest for life, and unwavering love for his family and friends will be fondly remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing him. He leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories that will forever remain in our hearts.