Obituary of Ross Howard Schaeffer Ross Howard Schaeffer, age 71, of Matawan, died Wednesday, April 10, 2019 at Robert Wood Johnson, New Brunswick. Mr. Schaeffer was born in East Brunswick, NJ. He served in the Air Force during the Vietnam War. He was employed by Gestalt Therapist. He is survived by his son Ari Shaeffer. The funeral will be held 9:00 am on Monday, April 22, 2019 at Rezem Funeral Home, 457 Cranbury Road, East Brunswick. Burial will be in Brigadier General William C Doyle Veterans Cemetery, Wrightstown Borough on Monday, April 22 at 11:00 am.