Laura (Retko)

Laura (Retko) Obituary

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Age - 71

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October 7, 2023

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Neenah, WI

Laura H. Purdy (Sheffer)(Retko), age 71, of Appleton, passed away on Thursday, October 5, 2023. On July 21, 1952, Laura was born in Nairobi, Kenya to William and Margaret Purdy. Laura was a writer and poet who loved reading, fabric arts, animals, and comedies. Laura will be greatly missed by her son, Dan Steiner, his wife, Karen Falls-Steiner, her grandchildren, Oliver and Anya Steiner, her sister, Maria Ali and her husband Mohammed Ali and their children, Suzanne, Nuraldin, Yusuf and other cousins and relatives. Funeral services will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, October 14, 2023 at Kessler-Fahrenkrug Funeral Home, 304 S. Commercial St. , Neenah. Visitation will be held from 9:30 AM until the time of services. Burial will be in Oak Hill Cemetery, Neenah.

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