Elaine Alemany
Age - 84
December 3, 2023
Elaine Alemany, of Scottsdale, AZ, passed away peacefully on November 30, 2023 at the age of 84. Elaine was born May 20, 1939, to Jose Valladares and Eloisa Rocafort, in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico. Elaine enjoyed her childhood growing up in New York City with her brother, Jose Luis Valladares (deceased) and sister, Nancy Valladares-Zarate. Elaine married her love, Manuel Alemany ("Tato") in 1960, and together they had four children, Lorraine (John) Murrietta, Evelyn (Alvaro) Pulido, Fanny (Salvatore) Musto and Manuel "Manny" (Yolanda) Alemany. Elaine was a retired elementary education schoolteacher at St Mary's in Paterson, New Jersey for over 30 years. She simultaneously pursued her Bachelor of Science from Montclair State in New Jersey while working full time, and parenting four children. Her first kindergarten class was attended by her precious son, Manny Alemany, who called her "Mrs. Alemany", "not Mom," for the longest time. Widowed years prior, Elaine rotated living with her daughters starting in June 2003. After visiting her children in Arizona for many years and leaving her community at St Mary's, Elaine relocated to Scottsdale, AZ permanently in 2013. She loved the sun and the mild winters and having so much family around. Elaine found joy being around her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She was a devout member of the Catholic Church, first calling St Patrick's her Scottsdale Church Community "home" and then attending Our Lady of Perpetual Help. Elaine liked to travel whether it was to go on a field trip (aka family vacation), shopping, or exploring. She was an inquisitive learner and loved meeting people. She rarely called anyone a stranger and she taught all her family to do the same. She also liked to reminisce about her childhood, her younger years, and even her later years in life. She left her family with many memories, lessons, and stories that will be shared for generations. Elaine later moved into her own place, Villa Ocotillo/Ocotillo Place, in 2016. She made many friends there by playing Bingo and winning so many games that they limited the number of times she could win. She played Poker with the guys until they kicked her out for winning there too. She was Queen Bee at Villa Ocotillo and enjoyed being bossy to her housemates. She was loved by many there who cared for her as our extended family. She will forever be known as "Dumpling. "Elaine will be fondly remembered for being a loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, daughter, friend, and sister. Elaine was preceded in death by her husband, Manuel Alemany and her parents Jose & Eloisa Valladares. Elaine is survived by her sister, Nancy Zarate-Valladares; her children, Lorraine (John) Murrietta, Evelyn (Alvaro) Pulido, Fanny (Salvatore) Musto, and Manuel (Yolanda) Alemany; grandchildren Joshua (Tiffany) Murrietta, Jenna (Michael) Guizar, Ryan Rebasch, Marisa Alemany, Manuel Romero Alemany, Julian Alemany, Stephanie Musto, Natalie Pulido, and Sophia Musto; her bonus grandchildren, Edgar Pulido, Sal Musto and Stephen Musto; great-grandchildren Anisa Murrietta, Cecilia Guizar, Pablo Murrietta, Siena Guizar, Lucia Guizar, Gabriella Guizar, Nicodemus Guizar, Avila Guizar, Jude Murrietta, Olivia Guizar; and numerous nieces and nephews. Elaine also leaves behind many dear friends in New Jersey and Arizona whom she created countless memories with over the years. Her memory will forever live in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. Elaine's Viewing will be at Messinger Mortuary, located at 7601 E. Indian School Rd, Scottsdale, AZ on Tuesday, December 5th, from 6pm-9pm. A rosary will be said at 7pm. Elaine's Funeral Mass will take place on Wednesday, December 6th at 11:30a at St Patrick Catholic Community located at 10815 N. 84th St. , Scottsdale. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to St. Mary Help of Christians Church, 410 Union Ave. , Paterson, NJ 07502.Show more