John Coute
Age - 79
November 30, 2023
In Loving Memory of John CouteJohn Coute, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and cherished member of our community, peacefully departed this world on October 23, 2023 at the age of 79. He leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and unwavering support for his family and friends. John was born on July 5, 1944 and raised in Bristol, Rhode Island, where he graduated from Colt High School in 1962. He moved to California in 1968 where he spent the rest of his life as a patriarch of his family and was a large presence in his community. He was a devoted husband to his loving wife, Barbara of 54 years, proud father to his daughters, Nicole Howes and Melissa Bennington, grandfather to Delanie Howes, Jackson Bennington, and Demi Bennington, and father in law to Scott Howes and Jay Bennington. He was loved by many including his nieces, nephews, brother in laws, cousins, and countless friends. He was preceded in death by his mother and father, Almerinda and John Coute, and sister Bernice (Coute) Parenti. Throughout his life, John displayed remarkable qualities that endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He was loving, generous, and his smile would bring a smile to all he knew. He possessed a strong work ethic, determination, and a genuine sense of responsibility. These attributes were evident as he owned many businesses including Arrow Auto Air and Service Center, formerly Goodyear Tire San Bernardino and GT Kawasaki Fontana. He showed his incredible talent for sales as a Snap-On Tools Dealer for 27 years and later a franchisee plus spent countless years selling vehicles. In his free time, John had a passion for Hot Rods which he often shared with his family and friends. These shared moments were filled with laughter, joy, and a deep sense of connection. He was a member of the Over The Hill Gang San Bernardino, where he donated much of his time and energy raising funds for various cities and charitable organizations. John was also a former member of The Lions Club Fontana, a member of Saint Adelaide Catholic church, and a long term member of the San Bernardino Planning Commission. John was proud to serve his country in the United States National Guard from 1965 until 1971. He displayed his love for his country regularly to his family and continued to display his patriotism for 18 years as the proud annual announcer at the Veterans Car Show for the Volunteer For Veterans Foundation. He also leaves behind a network of friends and extended family who will miss his fun loving pranks, wisdom, kindness, and a good time! His legacy of love, resilience, and commitment will live on as an enduring example to us all. The memory of John Coute will forever be cherished in the hearts of those who knew him. John's devotion to his family was unwavering, and his presence will forever be missed. A memorial service to celebrate John's life will be held on Friday, November 17, 2023 at St Adelaide's church in Highland at 2:30pm. His Celebration of Life will follow from 4-8 p. m. at The Elks Lodge San Bernardino. As we say our goodbyes to John Coute, let us remember the beautiful moments we shared with him and the love he brought into our lives. Please continue to share your stories so his memory will continue to shine brightly, and his spirit will forever remain in our hearts. In Lieu of flowers the family is requesting donations be made in John's name by Venmo to Volunteer for Veterans Foundation @VFVF22 or mailed to VFVF c/o Betty Volk 9473 Emerald Ave, Fontana, CA 92335Show more