Jacquelyn Lilly

Jacquelyn Lilly Obituary

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Age - 72

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August 26, 2023

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West Hartford, CT

"Jacquelyn ("Jackie") Lilly (nee Toolis) was a caring wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend. She left this world suddenly on August 23, 2023 at age 72. She was born in Cleveland, Ohio to Jack and Arlene Toolis on September 17, 1950, the first of their nine children. Jacquelyn attended St. Coleman's School and Magnificat High School. After graduating from high school, Jacquelyn studied education at Mount St. Joseph College in Cincinnati, Ohio, where she met her husband of 52 years, Dan. They were devoted to their six children Dan, Kate, John, Bridget, Maeve, and Trish. They eventually settled in Hartford, Connecticut where Jacquelyn spent 25 years as a preschool teacher at Capitol Child Development Center. One of Jackie's greatest joys was being "Meme" to her five grandchildren. She also loved researching her Irish heritage, the highlight of which was a trip to Achill Island in Ireland where she met her Toolis relatives. She enjoyed cooking, gardening, books, exploring New York City, reminiscing about growing up in Cleveland, and a good glass of wine. Jackie will be greatly missed by her husband Dan; children Dan (Krista), Bridget (Quincy), Maeve (Dominic), and Trish; and grandchildren Natasha, Jack, Zelya, Katie, and Wes; but they all take great comfort in knowing that she has been reunited with her daughter Kate, son John, and parents Jack and Arlene. She will be lovingly remembered by her siblings Patrick (Wendy), Colleen (Kent), Terry (Liz), Sean (Lori), Maureen (John), Kevin (Wendy), Kelly (Matt), and Shannon (Robert); Dan's seven siblings; and her numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Friends may call at Molloy Funeral Home, 906 Farmington Avenue in West Hartford, on Tuesday, August 29th from 4 to 7 p. m. A funeral mass will be held at St. Patrick-St. Anthony Catholic Church, 285 Church Street in Hartford, on Wednesday, August 30th at 10 a. m. , with a reception to follow. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Franciscan Center for Urban Ministry, 285 Church Street, Hartford, CT 06103. "

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